I haven't written here in a while. I'm not even quite sure what to write. All I know is that honesty and communication is the best policy. I think a lot of bad assumptions or issues arise from lack of verification, by assuming the worst in each other. I've made some mistakes recently by trying to verify things that weren't really my business to find out. However, if no one verfies and rumors keep spreading how do we know what the real "truths" are? Maybe I'm wrong and like someone said "autistic or something" but I'm trying to get things right.